Перевод на русский следует ниже 🙂.
Being a mom means killing a child inside your head for it’s resurrection in your eternal memory later to give you an ability of making decisions not only in order to please yourself or meet your own wishes.
Being a mom is love.
Being a mom means giving your baby a chance to correct his mistake instead of blaming for his failure.
It means giving a hug, instead of a preach.
Being a mom takes a lot of patience to listen even when you think there’s nothing worthy to be said and be quite even when you are overflowing with words.
Also it is understanding, there is no doubt that what’s need to be done has to be done, but the most important need is trying to reach peace without war and do it without yelling.
And it is understanding, that your negative evaluation of a deed or event your kid is excited about won’t make him feel the same way as you do about it, but he will definitely feel a rejection from you. So save your esteems for someone you don’t like.
Being a mom means trying not to fall into habit of controlling every step of your precious child while taking care of his safety. It also means keeping noticing even the smallest initiative of your little one and treat it with care, trying not to suppress it.
Be still and stable as a rock, when your child is all like the ocean in a stormy day, to be able to help this ocean to calm down only by means of your tender and secure voice and look.
Letting him grow, watching aside and wondering, how your kid’s personality develops, but not trying to change it your way. Once given a life your child will live it by himself.
Yes, being a mom is a huge work. So I thank my mom she did it for me once.
I love You, mom!
And, mom, thanks for that delicious pie You made us on a Mother day.